Ailen (Nani) Arreaza
North Carolina Program Director and Chief Question Writer
I am mami to two handsome and rambunctious boys. When I was pregnant with my first, I read everything I could get my hands on about birthing and raising a child. I was disheartened to find that the U.S. lags behind the rest of the world when it comes to issues like parental leave and childcare. I believe in ParentsTogether because I know that parents can be an unstoppable force for change. Together we can raise the standard of support for all families and children in our country.
I have ten years of experience in City Government, where I worked to promote and enforce equal opportunity in some of Charlotte’s most marginalized communities. I am also a regular contributor to Creative Loafing Charlotte, where I often write about issues affecting parents and families. I am originally from Cuba and speak Spanish at home.
Co-Founder & Co-Director
One of the best things I did as a new parent was to join a local group of moms who have kids the same age as mine. Four years later, these eight amazing women have been my on-call support system, my go-to resource guide, and my confidantes. Turns out – being part of a supportive community makes the parenting load a whole lot lighter.
I believe in ParentsTogether because I know there are so many ways we can support one another through the joyful highs and occasional lows of raising our children, and I’m committed to helping strengthen communities of parents around the country.
I’ve worked as a social entrepreneur for 15 years, after starting my career as a student teacher in Detroit Public Schools and then working with the National Head Start Association and DC-based College Bound. In 2001, I launched the I Do Foundation – a national nonprofit that has helped hundreds of thousands of couples use their weddings as an opportunity to raise money for charity.
A Michigan native, I live in Washington, DC, with my partner and two kids under five. We live in an apartment building with several dear friends and family members who treat our kids like their own–which keeps me both sane and eternally grateful.
Co-Founder & Co-Director
This past Halloween, my five-year-old daughter dressed as a zombie-fairie-princess.
It struck me that her costume captured the essence of being a parent—it feels magical, beautiful, scary, and, occasionally, like something’s trying to eat your brain.
Parenting is not for the faint of heart. But one thing I’ve learned is that things always go better when I have help. And that I, in turn, can lighten the load for others. That’s what ParentsTogether is about.
I’ve also found that lending a hand to other families–on our own block or around the world–is the best way I know to show my kids what it means to be human. That’s another reason I’m so excited to be part of this effort.
Before ParentsTogether, I worked on issues like economic inequality, health care reform, climate change, and peace as the director of the national progressive group MoveOn.org. I began my work as an organizer with GreenCorps, did environmental justice work in California’s Central Valley, and was a union organizer in my hometown of New Haven, Connecticut.
My partner, Autumn, and I are blessed to be raising two generally amazing, occasionally infuriating kids, and two often-infuriating, occasionally amazing dogs, in Brooklyn, NY.
Senior Director of Product Management
As a parent, I’ve often felt the drive to support parents and kids in my Brooklyn community. When my son was two, I started a preschool cooperative with a talented teacher and some other neighborhood parents. We made a loving, creative, fun environment for our little group to thrive in. It was an inspiring experience for me, and I’m thrilled that ParentsTogether’s mission is to bring parents together to support each other in a similar way.
My son is now in elementary school, and he’s an amazing combination of a rock-star-in-training (he’s a drummer), and a sensitive, thoughtful kid who loves our new kitten.
Bonnie Chin Washburn
I believe in ParentsTogether because I know that as parents, we all need some help and support. Issues like paid family leave and affordable child care are an ongoing challenge for many. Together, we can effect change.
Prior to joining ParentsTogether, I worked in financial services, management consulting, city government, and special education with a focus on business process improvement. For the past five years, I have worked as COO at the Museum of Chinese in America, where we were dedicated to preserving and presenting Chinese American history to pass on to future generations.
I am the mother of extremely inquisitive and active twin boys. When I first found out that I was pregnant with twins, I was excited and looked forward to our new family additions. Then, numerous questions whirled through my mind: How was I going to manage a busy job and newborns? Where can we find affordable and trustworthy childcare? The proverb, “It takes a village to raise a child” (or children in my case) is very apt. With the support of family, friends, and community resources; such as, the Mother of Twins Club Queens, we made it work.
My partner and I live in Orange County, NY, where our sons are in elementary school and enjoying all that the great outdoors has to offer.