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Quiz: Does your personality match up to your birth order?

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Whether you’re the firstborn who broke the mold, the baby of your clan, or the middle child bridge between the two, what does your birth positioning in your family say about your personality? While the exact connection between birth order and personality is still uncertain, experts have studied and found correlations between certain personality traits and one’s standing in their family. What makes each of us who we are is complicated and certainly a mystery at times, but birth order is one factor that may offer some interesting clues.

From confident, high-achieving firstborns to chillaxed, independent later-borns, the order in which we enter the world may shape how we view ourselves and interact with others. While no one can be pinned down to any particular trait, patterns often emerge that hint at how family dynamics play a role in shaping personality. Are you the responsible by-the-book planner paving the way for your siblings, the peacekeeping mediator who is adept at balancing family tensions, or the free-spirited adventurer basking in the spotlight? 

Take the quiz below with your kids or family for a fun and insightful bonding activity—discover how fate might have shaped your family’s journey and influenced who you are!

Does your personality match your place in the family?

Birth order personality quiz
1. When you’re in a group, how do you tend to behave?
2. How do you usually respond when you're given a new responsibility or task?
3. How do you usually react to praise or criticism?
4. If you were organizing a family event, what role would you take?
5. How do you feel about being the center of attention?
6. How do you feel about competition in your family or with your siblings?
7. What is your approach to friendships or relationships?
8. When there’s a problem, how do you usually tackle it?

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Dhalya Wagner is a digital producer and staff writer at ParentsTogether. She lives in New York with her husband and two daughters, and loves reading mysteries, taking beach vacations, and cooking a good meal for her family.