As the Epstein files continue to dominate headlines and social media feeds, it’s inevitable that kids may hear about them and get curious. When kids find out about high-profile cases in the news, they need age-appropriate context that includes honest information, without unnecessary fear.
When it comes to the Epstein files, the conversation can focus on accountability and transparency—teaching kids that demanding justice from those in power is one of the ways that parents keep their kids safe. It’s also a good opportunity to revisit topics on body safety that empower kids to protect themselves.
A script for parents about the Epstein files
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The key to this conversation is not giving your child more information than they need to know. Start by asking them what they already know about it and use that, along with their age and developmental level, as your reference point for how much detail to share. Here’s a script to use as a guide if your child asks about the Epstein files—
- Share the need-to-know info. You can say, “I’m glad you asked me about it. The Epstein files are documents (like emails, memos, etc.) with information about people connected to someone who hurt children. Right now, some of those files are being kept private, and a lot of people are asking why. When people in power protect each other instead of following the law, it makes it harder to hold anyone accountable.”
- Emphasize that transparency matters. You can say, “We need to know the truth when serious things happen, so we can make sure it doesn’t happen again. That’s why parents and other adults are demanding that these files be released—because keeping secrets protects the wrong people.”
- Connect to lessons on body safety. You can say, “That’s why I always say to tell me right away if someone tells you to keep a secret. Surprises are one thing—they’re fun and temporary, like when you can’t tell someone what their birthday gift is going to be. But secrets are meant to stay hidden, and if someone’s trying to hide something forever, that’s a pretty big sign that it’s wrong or dangerous. Right?”
- Reassure them that they’re safe. You can say, “My job as your parent is to keep you safe and to demand that people in power follow the rules and protect kids. That’s what accountability is—making sure everyone answers for their actions, especially people with influence.”
To close out the conversation, you should leave space for any other questions they may have. Then, reassure them that they did the right thing by coming to you with their questions and that your door is always open if they need help understanding something or are feeling worried about something.
